| A group of professional people posed this question to
a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" The
answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have
imagined. See what you think.
"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff
gets in the way."
"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over
and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her
all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."
Rebecca - age 8
"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You know that your name is safe in their mouth."
Billy
- age 4
"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving
cologne and they go out and smell each other."
Karl
- age 5
"Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you
don't yell at them because you know it would hurt their feelings."
"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes
a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."
Danny
- age 7
"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop
opening presents and listen."
Bobby
- age 7 (Wow!)
"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears
it every day."
Noelle
- age 7
"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who
are still friends even after they know each other so well."
Tommy
- age 6
"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked
at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
Cindy - age 8 Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age 4
Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing,
you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy
and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss"
Emily - age 8
"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with
a friend who you hate,"
Nikka - age 6
"There are two kinds of love. Our love. God's love. But God
makes both kinds of them."
Jenny - age 8
"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone
else kissing me to sleep at night."
Clare - age 6
"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."
Elaine-age 5
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still
says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."
Chris - age 7
"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left
him alone all day."
Mary Ann - age 4
"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her
old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."
Lauren - age 4
"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and
little stars come out of you."
Karen - age 7
"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it.
But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
Jessica - age 8
And
the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked
about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest
was to find the most caring child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbour was
an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing
the
man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed
onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked him what
he
had said to the neighbour, the little boy said, "Nothing, I
just
helped him cry."
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